Restroom Rendezvous

I apologize for my lapse in blogging. This month has been a whirlwind of assessments, holiday programs, and the intense "push for the break". I've only now begun to feel completely recharged... just in time to head back to the trenches on January 2nd! Definitely missing St. Sign of the Cross and there desire to extensively celebrate the birth of Baby Jesus. But as the year comes to a close, I'll share a sure-fire highlight from my time at Bug Tussle Elementary. Read and enjoy - hopefully with a glass of bubbly and a shiny party hat!

A couple weeks before Winter Break, I'd scheduled a Science test. Students had been prepped thoroughly and had a wealth of notes and reminders in their Science notebooks. I know, because I wrote them, copied them, and then stapled them INTO the Science notebook. Trust me - that was much easier than the alternative of waiting for each child to painstakingly copy the definitions from the not-so-Smartboard. I'd even gone so far as to notify the parents (via the newsletter that 3 of them read weekly) that there would be no study guide. I cheerfully emphasized the importance of the Science notebook and chirped about how it could go home ALL WEEK to support student study endeavors. (I know, based on my past posts this is laughable to all my readers - but I was trying for teacher of the year... or at least Santa's Nice List).

A couple days before the test, I was shoving the last of the dear ones out the door at 3:00pm. I'd needed a restroom break since noon (on account of my newfound health kick of guzzling water by the bottleful - not recommended for anyone in the teaching field). Ignoring the intense pain in my feet from my very-cute-but-not-school-teacher-appropriate stilettos, I click clacked towards the student restrooms. Just as I reached the sinks, a parent's voice stopped me in my tracks.

Turning with a smile and almost imperceptible sigh, I saw with chagrin that it was one of the helicopter parents from the class. This was our third impromptu rendezvous of the week, which was - in my opinion - three too many! No amount of prodding on her part or encouraging tutoring on my part was going to change the fact that her Sally Sue was not going to turn into Marie Curie. Or even a female version of Bill Nye. Without waiting for me to acknowledge her, Chopper Mom took off with her latest concern...

"Sally Sue doesn't have her study guide for the Science test on Friday."

"It's Wednesday, " I thought...

"She needs another copy."

"We didn't send home a study guide. It was explained in the newsletter on Monday. The kids were instructed to use their Science notebooks." I said. 

"Which you'd know if you'd leave me alone and READ the newsletter for all your concerns," I thought...

"Her Science notebook?"

"Mmhmm," with a saccharine sweet smile.

"It says SCIENCE," I thought with an eye roll. 

At this point, Chopper Mom gave a confused nod- which I took to mean our conference had concluded. With that, I turned crisply and strode into the restroom. Just as I locked my stall and began to hike my pencil skirt, the air began to churn with a nasal voice. Chopper Mom had followed me INTO the restrooms. Apparently, she was ready for an emergency landing since her child's Science grade was at stake. 

"Why wasn't there a Study Guide?" she queried. 

"Um, what?! Ahem, because we've been practicing note taking - an important to skill to master at this grade level?!" My voice rose in anxiety. I was trapped in a stall with my skirt  around my chest and a crazy mother's Converse blocking my escape...

"There's a level of DECORUM," I thought maliciously as I struggled to maintain an air of professionalism.

"Can she get one? There's nothing in her Science notebook!" I cringed and braced myself for the thrust of the Science notebook under the stall. Mercifully, this action did not come. 

"Right now?! Um..." I frantically finished adjusting my tucked in shirt. 

"Should I write it on this cheap knock-off Charmin?!" I wanted to scream...

I threw open the stall door and made a beeline for the sinks and foamy antiseptic smelling soap. Intently staring at my hands, I firmly told her to grab a Science book for extra support. Finally, Chopper Mom got the point and took to the air, a new target sighted - a SCIENCE BOOK. As I dried my hands and did some minor hair and makeup tweaks, I silently evaluated the restroom rendezvous and thought - that JUST HAPPENED. Weeks later, it still makes me shake my head in disbelief - but as 2012 draw to a close, it provides me with a couple important resolutions...

1. This excessive water drinking is for fitness fanatics who have ample free time for restroom breaks at their workplace. NOT for elementary school teachers.

2. Always take a pen and pad with you. You never can tell when you may have to compose an impromptu study guide during a restroom rendezvous.

What's Your Special Place?

Each morning, I give my class a discussion question during "Morning Meeting". This gives them an opportunity to talk about something with friends before the business of the academic day begins. This is a great plan; however, my class thinks talking and poking each other is much more important than actually LEARNING anything remotely useful all day long (how to multiply or spell "science" for example). Therefore, talking is probably the least constructive thing to do in a Morning Meeting. But I digress...

A week or so ago, I provided this ice breaker for discussion - what's your special place? This was meant to be a tried and true "getting to know you" question that was sure to elicit touching ideas by Bug Tussle's young folk. But, I should have known that answers like "the oak tree in our backyard" or "my Grandmother's kitchen" weren't about to fall from the mouths of these Mountain Dew-swilling babes. Instead, I overhead this gem that I knew MUST BE SHARED. Because it is an impeccable example of Southernly Speaking, if a slightly trashy one.

As I circulated the classroom, I listened to students hem and haw about loving to go to their barn or their Dad's work. And then I honed in on this unbelievable confession. Two young men who can best be described as "Bubbas" were deep in conversation when one confessed his special place and stopped me in my Sperryed tracks.

Bubba 1: "My special place is Hooters. It's a real nice place."

Bubba 2: "Yeah, I think I hearda that place. Do they have clothes there?"

Bubba 1: "Uh huh. It's a real nice place to eat. But yeah - they got clothes there too. Real nice ones. My
                  dad gets his shirts there and we eat there. It's REAL nice."

I'm sure there was more to this exchange, but at this point I had to remove myself from the vicinity before collapsing in a fit of guffaws. Visions of neon orange owls with enlarged eyes danced in my head and the scent of wing sauce and stale beer filled my nostrils. Though I must admit I have - in fact- (semi) willingly eaten at this establishment, I would not go so far as to call it a "nice place". I can honestly say that I went FOR THE WINGS, and not for the scenery. Although in Bug Tussle I suppose that any eatery that decorates in varnished lumber and hunting orange would rate high on the Zagat scale.

So the next time JP asks to take me to a "special place", I may have a new request. When in Rome and all that... I am, after all a "champagne taste on a beer budget" type of girl. And who can say no to clothing and food in one real nice place?!

XO,